Software - Way Of Survival - Work Life Balance

Their is a lot of pressure building up in everyone to maintain their work life balance...! This becomes difficult as their is more and more pressure, building up to complete the work in limited time period.

We cannot follow sleep schedule, nor can we have a healthy lifestyle, we don't have time to exercise.

Did you ever have thoughts like why are we working so hard, while damaging our health and paying hard earned money to healthcare! what is the point of all this.

I have also gone through all this!

Before telling you the solution to all this, I would like to tell you a short incident which has changed my way of looking at things...!

One day, I was going for a walk late in the night, usually I wouldn't go out, but seeing my sedative life style, my grandma has pulled me out to go for a walk, we both went for a walk...! On the way we discussed simple simple things like how the city has changed, how to walk and all general small talk, During this small talk we noticed a few men walking beside us, they were in work uniform, dirt was all over their clothes, they seem to be returning to their work place homes after a hectic work day. Suddenly I realize looking at them, they definitely are not belonging to this state. They have left their homes and come here to earn very little wages, working till late night, only for the sake of their families to eat daily and on the other side, I just have to sit at my desk and use my brain in a comfort environment, may be I would have to stretch a few days, some late nights,

so after looking at them my work and the pay, I am getting for that seems to be many times greater, so what's the complain now.

Solution: See to handle this situation, there are two ways:

1) You can log off after 6 or 7 and be bold on your decision, and face the circumstances like your boss might be angry on you, etc.. and expect fear like what will happen to my job and be tensed always.

or

2) You can accept the situation and understand the teams behavior's and extend a bit and complete the work and move on..! if it is too hard to do this job due to entirely situations are out of your control..! don't just quit, hard times will exist everywhere, plan out what else can you do to better your life extend to work on you side project which will get you a much better job or business' which will give you financial independence.

Do all this while still in your job, because if you just quit it might have adverse effects on your situations.

I decided to go for 2nd solution, now its your turn to decide which one you want to choose..!

Remember: You are the one responsible for everything happening in your life.

Bye....!